To submit is …..


…..the most frightening thing one can do, because it opens us up to exploitation and hurt. And yet submitting can also the most rewarding and liberating thing we can do. To submit….is to trust! to trust is to let go and let be! As children we trusted. Without doubts and with out fear. As we grow through the stages of life, we developed the UNDER standing that to trust is a liability. That submission is slavery. That surrender is weak. That letting go is not good.  We say these things, while quoting…

….If you love something, set it free if it comes backs it’s yours if it doesn’t, it never was.

Do we not see the irony in this? Trust or submission is best seen in all its fearful contradiction when it comes to personal relationships. Personal relationships in the form of this nebulous thing called love. While there are different levels to these self expression, the man-woman relationship is where we most get the contradictions about submission and trust. The video below, I first saw on my face book space. If we get behind the image and dig the words, it sums up the reasons why we must submit.

Why Trust Is Worth It

Do we trust in a relationship. Do we submit when we relate? What is the purpose for our union? And how can we create that space that is safe and sacred? A woman’s highest calling is to lead a man to his soul so as to unite him with the source. A man’s highest calling is to protect a woman so she is free to walk the earth unharmed. In other words, she balances him and he supports her.

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